Living with a narc is hard, leaving is harder.
A broken teeth dream is an invitation to look at the path you have chosen.
He will hurt them when their grown, and yes, they might have issues with attracting narcs themselves.
My father is a fullblown N and my mother his life long passive aggressive enabler.
They never got to really know each other.
I was lucky enough to have family support.
Their uplifting patter is all temporary.
He has abandoned me and our three kids.
As for him hoovering, he may because narcissists have no shame at all but when and if this happens, you will have to document it but completely ignore it.
My wife was standing there with a birthday cake.