The other guy may try to boast,take revenge etc.
The reasons the situation is not changing are not at all purely cultural but to a great extent financial and practical.
He needs to change, or this situation needs to change, and your husband does not appear that he will step up and be the hero here to take the steps, which would lead to change.
Used by my pal Theo and me for 1.
But she now considers that she is good for nothing, she never asks me to do any work, earlier we used to share it all, I made breakfast, she did dinner or the other way etc.
We were married, things went great till 7 months, I always suspected her but I never bothered to look in it.
I live in USA so we are apart for these months now.
In no way has this affected my relationship with God or with my husband.
My husband is extremely intelligent, quick witted and a high functioning alcoholic.
And wife is accountable for her past just like a husband is accountable to her for his finances etc.
Or search on google how to hide virginity etc.
As for kids you can try IVF it is expensive but safe and useful.