Since people talk because there is a need to communicate, by not listening, that need is not being fulfilled!
So there we go, those are my questions to ask your girlfriend.
Think about the early days of the internet when all we had was e-mail, forums, and instant messaging.
Here are 10 of them:
I bet that says a lot about your personality.
Where do you sometimes go with your friends?
Talking about your bad health or relationships, your crappy job or boss, serial killers, technical lingo that only you and some other guy understands or anything that sucks the positive energy out of the conversation are topics to steer clear from.