Get to know her a little.
My Canadian friend, Michael, just moved to Panama and had an unfortunate experience with dating.
Or are you cheating somebody of their valuable things?
Those things are happen in front of your nose.
Don't make it complicated then it is, if you want to get laid just go to Alexis classy sexclub.
Women are good at multi-tasking.
The question hits your chest like a lead weight.
Once you are strong enough, then you can deal with the real problem and confront your husband.
It is a metaphor for some form of insecurity.