The Afterplay Lovemaking:
But then came the '70s.
And, for women anyway, there's no performance anxiety.
At one time, the missionary position was sex.
With your calves on either side of his back, support his weight on the backs of your thighs.
Lying on your back with nothing on your mind other than, say, how that stain got on the ceiling, you're in the ideal position to unwind and enjoy yourself.
Beluga caviar it ain't, but like a Quarter Pounder with cheese, you know how it's going to look, how it's going to taste, and how long it will take to eat.
Getting messy makes sex feel badass—have him finish on your breasts; or reach down, touch yourself, and then put your finger inside his mouth.
You have to trust it will happen.
A good way to do this is by restricting one sense, which in turn heightens the others.
Then he moves about two inches forward so that his pelvis is over yours.