Never use the survivor as a support person in your own struggles.
Herman, Judith Lewis.
Many perpetrators have characteristics of both fixated and regressed offenders.
Courtois, Christine A.
Russell, Diana E.
I am also sorry that you must carry the memory of that experience with you.
Male survivors of incest often deal with confusion about their sexuality.
The male is expected to be confident, knowledgeable, experienced, aggressive, and dominant.
There are three subsystems in a family system: