He only cares that his lies were out in the open.
Much like in the beginning when meeting a Narcissist, he puts on a great act, and he uses his best performance to lure you in and win you over!
The world needs more of these.
So true, it's confusingly frustrating for the victim, they can never seem to quite put their finger on what's actually going on, it's so well disguised.
You really have to have the other side of it, which is the need to prove yourself, the need to perform in order to feel like you have value.
In reality, the possibility that you will succeed is minimal.
Consequently our 6 year old daughter is completely confused.
If you are, buckle up.
I still see him and talk to him at family functions, but I owe him nothing, and refuse to accept any of his charity.
You could have years of history and it all goes out the window and your loyalty counts for nothing if he meets someone, especially if that someone pursues him.
And they expect to receive accolades for what they believe are outstanding personal attributes and accomplishments.
It an be a lonely existence, but when you can sit in a place of absolute and pure awareness without a driving ego state, that is the hot virgins girls having sex of bliss and tranquility, which is what I feel now.